Kebahagian Rumah Tangga

KEBAHAGIAN RUMAHTANGGA

1. Cium tangan suami dan suami cuim dahi isteri setiap kali sebelum berpisah ke tempat kerja asing-masing.

2. Jika berpisah lebih dari sehari seperti untuk tugasan luar daerah, tambahlah rutin harian tadi dengan pelukan dan ciuman di bibir.

3. Walau sesibuk mana sekali pun, luangkan masa untuk menelefon pasangan sekurang-kurangnya sekali walau sekadar untuk bertanya apa yang sedang dilakukan.

4. Sentiasa ucapkan kata-kata sayang seperti I love you sepenuh hati sebelum keluar kemana-mana, menamatkan perbualan di telefon dan sebelum tidur.

5. Sentiasa mencari peluang untuk makan bersama-sama, cuma anda berdua sahaja tanpa anak2 anda.

6. Amalkan bertanya apa yang berlaku sepanjang hari selepas pulang dari kerja sebagai tanda mengambil berat dan memberi peluang pasangan meluahkan perasaan.

7. Laungkan masa untuk berbual tentang apa sahaja dari isu rumah tangga dan apa sahaja yang pasangan anda minati.sebelum tidur.

8. Mudah berbaik dengan secepat mungkin jika berlaku sebarang pertelingkahan, jangan biar berlarutan walau untuk satu jam sekali pun apatah lagi berhari-hari.

9. Temani pasangan semasa menonton rancangan kegemarannya, walaupun sambil membaca akhbar misalnya, kerana apa yang penting ada berada di sisinya.

10. Jangan sesekali berpisah tempat tidur walau anak sudah berderet atau usia sudah meningkat kerana ia adalah salah satu amalan penting untuk mengeratkan kasih sayang.

11. Amalkan sembahyang berjemaah semasa di rumah, berdoa bersama serta bersalam-salaman selepasnya.

12. Biasakan bergilir gelas atau pinggan semasa makan serta tidak segan atau geli untuk menghabiskan makanan atau minuman isteri atau suami.

13. Sesekali buatlah kejutan seperti membeli hadiah atau kad untuk peristiwa tertentu, memakai pakaian dalam yang seksi atau apa sahaja yang anda tahu pasangan pasti menyukainya.

14. Senda gurau dalam rumah tangga amat penting, berceritalah sesuatu yang kelakar, teka teki atau apa sahaja yang membolehkan anda ketawa bersama.

15. Sentiasa kenang pengorbanan masing-masing seperti susah payah isteri melahirkan anak dan suami yang berkerja keras menyara keluarga.

16. Sesekali tukar gaya penampilan agar ada kelainan serta untuk mengelakkan pasangan merasa jemu.

17. Apa sahaja masalah yang timbul, berterus terang dan berbincang bersama untuk menyelesaikannya.

18. Sentiasa menyimpan tekad untuk menjadi suami / isteri yang baik dalam rumahtangga bahagia kerana fikiran positif akan memudahkan anda mencapai matlamat tersebut.

Jika amalan-amalan di atas tidak pernah dilakukan sehingga anda membaca article ini, jadikanlah ia sebagai titik permulaan untuk melakukannya tanpa rasa ragu dan malu.

Anda Dah Tua Bila...

> > 1. Dulu, kalau nak membaca...dari jauh pun boleh baca. Sekarang dekat2 tak
> > nampak....kena jauh-jauh sikit.
> >
> > 2. Dulu kalau nak kencing, dari jauh...suuurrrrr!!!! masuk.....!!!
> > Sekarang, kalau nak kencing, kena dekat-dekat, pelan-pelan lepas...baru
> > masuk...
> >
> > 3. Dulu, masa tidur menhadap muka...rapat-rapat, sekarang berlaga punggung
> > saja... itu pun dah kira rapat sangat dah tu....
> >
> > 4. Dulu, mana-mana pergi mesti bawa minyak wangi (dalam kereta ke, handbag
> > ke...), sekarang, bawa juga... tapi minyak angin la...
> >
> > 5. Dulu, pakai baju mesti sama...sama color, sama design, sama
> > brand....sedondon... Sekarang, "Asal kau ada baju nak pakai udah la...!"
> >
> > 6. Dulu, kalau nak kemana-mana, sanggup tunggu bini sampai se jam iron
> > tudung...pakai tudung.... Sekarang, "Alah...you pakai yg "wrinkle free" tu
> > je la....!" (dlm hati....macam la ada orang nak tenagok dia....hiyyyy!!!
> > Malam tadi tak mau nak gosok... lembab!!)
> >
> > 7. Dulu, sanggup jalan berbatu2 teman bini shopping, sekarang...tunggu dlm
> > kereta je. Kejap-kejap SMS..."Lama lagi ke?" "Apa aje yg you cari ni...?"
> >
> > 8. Dulu, hebat....!!! sebulan sampai 12 kali..., sekarang, kalau dapat 12
> > bulan sekali pun kira hebat juga...
> >
> > 9. Dulu, menunggu pun dah keras.... sekarang, menunggu nak keras...
> >
> > 10. Dulu, isteri nak tidur pakai shorts pun tak boleh, suruh buka...jgn
> > pakai apa-apa. Sekarang, isteri nak tidur pakai kemban pun kena suruh buka
> > juga... "Pakai baju yang senonoh sikit tak boleh ke...?"
> >

Minah Indon Kebas Laki Org?

Daripada E mail Foward;
Dear kengkawan,
Ni aku nak cerita satu kisah benar. Minah indon dalam gambar ni dah kenakan kawan aku. Nama dia SULASTRI SOFIA MULYOWIREJO. Ada panggil sofia, fia, sulastri dan tah apa2 lagi. Dia ni pandai gunakan ilmu hitam untuk pikat lelaki bujang dan laki org.
Minah ni keje kat kedai Ayamas (Desa Jaya, Tmn Desa Jaya, KL). Dekat dgn balai polis kepong. Dulu kita org slalu mkn kat kedai Ayamas situ. Tapi pelik, kenapa kawan aku blh tergila-gilakan minah indon ni padahal rupa takde dan kawan aku ni memang anti minah Indon. Duit gaji, bonus dan segala-galanya senang2 jer tabur kat minah Indon ni..

Mcm2 tempat bawak berubat dan semua katakan kwn aku dah terkena ilmu hitam minah ni. Minah ni masih ada kat kawasan Kepong. Kalau keje, dia mesti pakai tudung tapi abis keje, bukak tudung. Pandai cakap melayu mcm kita. Korang hati2 sebab minah ni memang desperate nak jadi warganegara kat sini. Muka kononnya mcm budak baik tapi dlm beg tangan sentiasa ada 'benda' utk letak dlm minuman or makanan mangsa. Kengkawan dia pun memang mcm dia jugak.

Sebarkan pada kengkawan lain supaya tak jadi mcm kawan aku yg hilang pedoman, mcm nak bersujud kat kaki Indon hantu ni. Jgn sampai laki korang kena kebas gara-gara Indon terkutuk ni.

CANCEROUS ORIENTAL FOOD

CANCEROUS FOODS / PRODUCTS

INSTANT NOODLES

Dear instant noodle lovers,
Make sure you break for at least 3 days after one session of instant noodles before you eat your next packet! Please read the info shared to me by a doctor. My family stopped eating instant noodles more than 5 years ago after hearing about the wax coating the noodles - the wax is not just in the Styrofoam containers but it coats the noodles. This is why the instant noodles do not stick to each other when cooking.

If one were to examine the ordinary Chinese yellow noodles in the market, one will notice that, in their uncooked state the noodles are oily. This layer of oil prevents the noodles from sticking together.

Wanton noodles in their uncooked state have been dusted with flour to prevent them sticking together. When the hawker cooks the noodles, notice he cooks them in hot water and then rinses them in cold water before cooking them in hot water again. This process is repeated several times before the noodles are ready to be served. The cooking and rinsing process prevents noodles from sticking together.

The hawker then "lowers the noodles in oil and sauce to prevent the noodles from sticking if they are to be served dry.. Cooking instructions for spaghetti require oil or butter to be added in the water when boiling the spaghetti to prevent the pasta from sticking together. Otherwise, one gets a big clump of spaghetti!

There was an SBC (now TCS) actor some years ago, who at a busy time of his career had no time to cook, resorted to eating instant noodles everyday. He got cancer later on. His doctor told him about the wax in instant noodles. The doctor told him that our body will need up to 2 days to clear the wax. There was also an SIA steward who after moving out from his mother's house into his own house, did not cook but ate instant noodles almost every meal. He had cancer, and has since died from it.

Nowadays the instant noodles are referred as " cancer noodles ".

SATAY LOVERS (BARBECUE)

If you all eat Satay, don't ever forget to eat the cucumber, because eating Satay together with carbon after barbequing can cause cancer.
But we have a cure for that... Cucumber should be eaten after we eat the Satay because Satay has carcinogen (a cancer causing element) but cucumber is anti-carcinogenic. So don't forget to eat the cucumber the next time you have Satay's.


PRAWNS (SUGPO) & VIT C

DO NOT eat shrimp / prawn if you have just taken VITAMIN C pills!!
This will cause you to DIE in ARSENIC (As) toxication within HOURS!!


PORK AWARENESS

Try this and see whether the pork you bought has worms. There goes with your "Bak Kut Teh" for those who love it. Most men love to eat this so watch out before it's too late. If you pours Coke (yes, the soda) on a slab of pork, wait a little while, you will SEE WORMS crawl out of it. A message from the Health Corporation of Singapore about the bad effects of pork consumption. Pig's bodies contain MANY TOXINS, WORM and LATENT DISEASES.

Although some of these infestations are harboured in other animals, modern veterinarians say that pigs are far MORE PREDISPOSED to these illnesses than other animals. This could be because PIGS like to SCAVENGE and will eat ANY kind of food, INCLUDING dead insects, worms, rotting carcasses, excreta including their own, garbage, and other pigs. INFLUENZA (flu) is one of the MOST famous illnesses which pigs share with humans. This illness is harboured in the LUNGS of pigs during the summer months and tends to affect pigs and human in the cooler months.

Sausage contains bits of pigs' lungs, so those who EAT pork sausage tend to SUFFER MORE during EPIDEMICS of INFLUENZA. Pig meat contains EXCESSIVE quantities of HISTAMINE and IMIDAZOLE compounds, which can lead to ITCHING and INFLAMMATION; GROWTH HORMONE which PROMOTES INFLAMMATION and growth; sulphur containing mesenchymal mucus which leads to SWELLING and deposits of MUCUS in tendons and cartilage, resulting in ATHRITIS, RHEUMATISM, etc.
Sulphur helps cause FIRM human tendons and ligaments to be replaced by the pig's soft mesenchymal tissues, and degeneration of human cartilage.

Eating pork can also lead to GALLSTONES and OBESITY, probably due to its HIGH CHOLESTEROL and SATURATED FAT content. The pig is the MAIN CARRIER of the TAENIE SOLIUM WORM, which is found in its flesh. These tapeworms are found in human intestines with greater frequency in nations where pigs are eaten. This type of tapeworm can pass through the intestines and affect many other organs, and is incurable once it reaches beyond a certain stage. One in six people in the US and Canada has RICHINOSIS from eating trichina worms, which are found in pork.

Many people have NO SYMPTOMS to warm them of this, and when they do, they resemble symptoms of many other illnesses. These worms are NOT noticed during meat inspections.


SHAMPOO

Cancer-causing substance in shampoos. Go home and check your shampoo. Change before it's too late... Check the ingredients listed on your shampoo bottle, and see they have a substance by the name of Sodium Laureth Sulfate, or simply SLS.. This substance is found in most shampoos; manufacturers use it because it produces a lot of foam and it is cheap. BUT the fact is, SLS is used to scrub garage floors, and it is very strong!!! It is also proven that it can cause cancer in the long run, and this is no joke. Shampoos that contains SLS: Vo5, Palmolive, Paul Mitchell, L'Oreal, the new Hemp Shampoo from Body Shop etc. contain this substance.

The first ingredient listed (which means it is the single most prevalent ingredient) in Clairol's Herbal Essences is Sodium Laureth Sulfate. Therefore, I called one company, and I told them their product contains a substance that will cause people to have cancer. They said, Yeah we knew about it but there is nothing we can do about it because we need that substance to produce foam. By the way Colgate toothpaste also contains the same substance to produce the "bubbles". They said they are going to send me some information.

Research has shown that in the 1980s, the chance of getting cancer is 1 out of 8000 and now, in the 1990s, the chances of getting cancer is 1 out of 3, which is very serious. Therefore, I hope that you will take this seriously and pass this on to all the people you know, and hopefully, we can stop "giving" ourselves cancer-causing agents.

Please pass on this information to your friends & loved ones.

SUSU BAYI TAK HALAL

susu similac ni adalah product Abbott Laboratories
selain similac, Abbott Laboratories juga distribute susu-susu berikut:
1) Isomil
2) gain
3) gain plus
4) grow
5) pediasure
6) ensure
berkaitan status halal / tak halal tu, harap kita dapat information a.s.a.p

Info utk kenkawan yg ader anak/adik/anak sedara yg minum susu *SIMILAC*.
Sorry terpaksa info pasal benda ni untuk pengetahuan mothers to be.. and
please inform this to ur 'mummy' friends ok. Aku baru dapat info dari
Datuk Dr Maamor persatuan pengguna islam malaysia .. susu formula *SIMILAC*
diragui status halalnya.Susu ni pun quite famous.. ada di pasaran.
Susu tu dipercayai guna hormon manusia dalam proses pembuatannya.
Susu tu pun dah dikategorikan tak HALAL dari Persatuan Pengguna Islam Amerika Syarikat.

KISAH HAMPIR DI ROGOL DARI INTERNET

Kisah Benar... Hampir Dirogol!!
Message: Kisah benar dari US . Banyak kisah-kisahaneh yang menakjubkan sebegini telah berlaku. Moga kita boleh ambil iktibar.

Seorang wanita muslim dari Malaysia yang bekerja di US, memakai tudung dan memiliki akhlak yang bagus. Suatu malam
perempuan ini dalam perjalanan balik kerumah dari tempat kerjanya. Kebetulandia mengambil jalan singkat untuk pulang. Jalan yang diambil pula agak tersorok dan tidak banyak orang yanglalu lalang pada masa itu. Maklum hari sudah lewat malam. Berjalan di jalan yang agak gelap sebegitu membuatkan dia agak gelisah dan rasa takut berjalan berseorangan.

Tiba-tiba dia nampak ada seorang lelaki (kulit putih Amerika) bersandar di dinding di tepi lorong itu. Dia mula rasa takut dan tak sedap hati. Apa yang saudari kita ni boleh buat adalah berdoa ke hadrat Allah memohon keselamatan atas dirinya. Dia baca ayat Kursi dengan penuh pengharapan agar Allah membantu dia disaat itu.Masa dia melepasi lelaki yang bersandar
itu, dia sempat menoleh dan dapat mengecam muka lelaki itu. Nasib baik lelaki itu buat tidak endah dan perempuan ini selamat sampai ke rumahnya.

Keesokkan paginya, saudari ini terbaca dalam akhbar yang seorang perempuan telah dirogol oleh seorang lelaki yang tidak dikenali dekat lorong yang dia jalan semalam hanya 10 minit selepas dia melintasi lorong tersebut.Muslimah ini yakin benar lelaki kulit putih yang dia lihat semalam adalah perogol itu. Atas rasa tanggungjawab dia terus ke balai polis dan buat aduan. Wanita ni dapat mengenalpasti suspek melalui kawad cam dan selepas siasatan dilakukan, polis dapat bukti bahawa lelaki tersebut adalah perogol yang dicari.

Tapi perempuan Muslim ini hairan juga kenapa lelaki tadi tak jadikan dia mangsa ketika dia melalui lorong tersebut walhal dia keseorangan di masa tu, tetapi lelaki tadi rogol perempuan yang lalu selepas dia. Muslimah ini nak tahu sangat sebabnya. Jadi dia minta kebenaran polis untuk bercakap dengan perogol tadi sebelum hukuman dijatuhkan (sebelum lelaki tadi di bawa ke tempat lain).

Dia pun tanya perogol itu "Why don't you do anything to me on that night even though you know that I'm alone?" Perogol
tu jawab: "No, you are not alone. That night I saw two young man walking with you. One on your right side and the other one was by your left side. If you were alone of course you will be my victim."

Saudari ni rasa amat terkejut bila dengar penjelasan perogol tu. Dia bersyukur ke hadrat Allah kerana memelihara dia malam itu, mungkin juga berkat ayat Kursi yang dia baca malam itu.

MORAL CERITA INI:

Jika kita sebagai hambaNya menurut segala perintah dan meninggalkan segala laranganNya, Dia pastinya akan sentiasa
dekat dengan kita dan memelihara kita. Muslimah tadi pertama-tamanya menutup aurat dan memang Muslimah yang menjaga
batas-batas yang ditetapkan Islam.(Kalau aurat terbuka malaikat pun malas dekat).Mungkin dua orang lelaki yang menemani
wanita itu adalah malaikat yang diutuskan Allah untuk menjaga hambaNya yang sentiasa ingat akan diriNya.

Ayat Kursi sememangnya adalah ayat pelindung yang mustajab...selalulah amalkannya. Bayangkan anda seorang yang selalu
ingkar suruhan Allah, kufur dengan nikmatnya, sambil lewa beribadat.Dapatkah anda mendapat pertolongan sebegini dari Allah? Balasan Allah tu boleh datang semasa di dunia lagi. Di akhirat kelak memang pasti kerana itu janji Allah. Jadi, renungkanlah di mana level 'iman' kita sekarang ini. Wassalam.

Barang siapa membaca ayat Kursi apabila berbaring di tempat tidurnya,Allah mewakilkan 2 orang Malaikat memeliharanya hingga subuh. Barang siapa yang membaca ayat al-Kursi ketika dalam kesempitan nescaya Allah berkenan memberi pertolongan kepadanya [Dari Abdullah bin 'Amr r.a.]

Sebuah kisah benar yang sangat sangat menarik pada pandangan saya.semoga andasemua mendapat pengajaran dan ilmu yang
bermanfat.sebagai hamba kita seharusnyapercaya dengan kemampuan senjata orangmukmin iaitu DOA....semoga kita sentiasa
dipeliara Allah dari kejahatan syaitan yang di rejam.....

Muslim Mind Map

Why a Muslim Mind Map? In the 21st Century?

Muslim world wide need to rethink and re look at their daily behaviour from the moment they wake up, goes to work, socializes, spending time with their families and later return homes to their bed.
It may be argued that the existing example and living prefect or standard including the strict foundation provided by the Prophet is enough and forever will be eternalize till the end of the days by billion of Muslim should be adequate, yet when we look at the Muslim behaviour and etiquette it is a stark contrast to the ways of the one God and the Beautiful ethics and conduct of the Prophets.

Islam is a way of live and should represent the truth and the beautiful and natural order of living yet, the present predicament and living of most Muslim does not portrayed this living and dynamism of Islam.

The Failure of Islam as a Brand.

Branding and Marketing goes hand in hand, what does marketing’s entails?

Definition of Marketing: Marketing is an organizational function and a set of processes for creating, communicating, and delivering value to customers and for managing customer relationships in ways that benefit the organization and its stakeholders

So every action of each Muslim in any ways will be a part of the whole branding and marketing of Islam it self! Islam is not a loner, it is a religion where each behavior must be related and portrayed Islam true identities. A policeman wearing a uniform and carrying a gun is expected to behave accordingly within a society points of views, if a policeman divert from its original purposes, it in it self have tarnished the very meaning and foundation of that particular institution.

21st century Muslim must possessed and have within his or her mind some of the following criteria’

• Benefits as a Muslim
Being as a Muslim must at its core be beneficial to his or her self, ie: you are being saved by professing and following the one and only true religion. You must also be beneficial to other Muslim. Your existence within your life cycle must also benefit others humans, animal and this world, for surely you are the caliph and the chosen ones. Your ethics must be of the highest and most adorable to all of creation, loving, non destructive and following the full spectrum of those which may evokes admiration and be as an umbrella or as a salvation to others entities.

Indeed we have given you these responsibilities and even the mountain does not dare to receive these great responsibilities, yet you human have been entrusted and have chosen to undertake this great task and responsibilities
• Creditability
Are you credible and honors enough to carry Islam as your religion. Do not tarnish its credibility’s, trustworthy and other aspect of this noble religion.

• Communication (real-time)
Our communication and social interaction. Are we a good person in nature, can we communicate with loving kindness? Can we address other being or other fellow Muslim with their deserved and rightful ways? Peace Be Upon You? Do we really meant what we say or it is just a slip of the tongue or a customary salutation?

• Research and self criticism
Do we dare to do research into our daily live which ones reflect the beautiful religion and which ones reflect our own desires and self interest, are we doing it solely for god and not any other ulterior motives? Can we accept criticism or just follow the blind dogma of the majorities of other professor of Islam?

1 COCA-COLA $67B
2 MICROSOFT $56B
3 IBM $56B
4 GE $48B
5 INTEL $32B
6 NOKIA $30B
7 TOYOTA $28B
7 DISNEY $27B
8 MCDONALD'S $26B
9 MARLBORO $24B
10 MERCEDES $21B

Value of a Brand? Do Islam need a Branding? Why on Earth do we care about Branding let God Alone does the Branding?

We each sees something based upon its Brand or market perception or Consumer perception. Yes Put a Mercedes and A Toyota Side By Side and ask a person to choose. I bet 75-99% will choose Mercedes if you are ask to choose ones and take it home for free!

Each brand have invested heavily and have maintain the utmost stringent of Qualities control program and checking system available to bring its brand to where it is today.

You can walk into any part of this Earth and pick up a Bottle of Coca Cola or Coke, and trust me each ones will taste the same. There is no points or arguing that Coke is Coke and Pepsi is Pepsi. It may come in a bottle with Arabic writings or Tibetans but the taste will always remains the same!

What about Islam and its individuals, what are the similarities? Yes there remains the core taste of Islam which is Praying to the One God, They all says Allah and they will definitely pray toward the Kaaba or Mecca, yet beyond that do we have a brand of passion? Loving kindness, grace, gratitude’s? Or we are the Terrorist whom will run amok and kills those so call infidels the moment someone drew a cartoon of one of our icons?
I have yet to see a Muslim or an Arabs running amok with guns blazing trying to saved a dying cats or a poor hopeless whale or even compete with green peace activist? Or if I may harsh enough to say an Islamic Imams leading a crusade to save the earth from Global Warming?

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